And You Will Know Us by the Company We Keep
Eugene Wei — Remains of the Day
≈ 24 min · Timeless
93/100Eugene Wei locates a major social-media failure in graph design rather than in generic complaints about feeds, features, or human nature. Western social apps, in his account, made the feed depend on the social graph: who a user knows, follows, or feels obliged to keep. That architecture helps solve cold start by pushing people to connect quickly, but it later turns those early ties into stubborn feed-shaping machinery.
The unresolved problem is that social graphs and interest graphs answer different questions. A relationship does not reliably predict what someone wants to consume, and people rarely prune connections once they harden into social facts. Feed quality, context collapse, and awkward behavior become consequences of the same bet.
